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It has become increasingly common for a girl to get offended by a friendoned boy who admitted to his want for something more in the relationship. Ladies, it isn’t about sex. Not all guys who talk with you do it to get in your pants (and if you believe that all guys only want sex, your an ignorant sexist). If you think all our friend wants is to get in your pants, tell me this: why would he keep his real feelings a secret from you, just for fear of losing the friendship, and rejection, if all he wanted was your vagina?
Answer: He wouldn’t. If a guy would rather be your friend than nothing, he obviously is after more than sex. So girls, if this ever happens to you, don’t freak out. This guy is your friend, he has been there for you. He isn’t one of those assholes you usually see. So half of you reading this, keep in mind that the most successful relationships are couples who claim to be “best friends,” and were friends before they dated. To the other half of you, get the hell off of tumbr and go apologize to your future husband.
FriendZone Theme Song
It Hurts Me - Elvis
It hurts me to see him treat you the way he does
It hurts me to see you sit and cry
When I know I could be so true
If I had someone like you
It hurts me to see those tears in your eyes
The whole town is talking, they’re callin’ you a fool
For listening to his same old lies
And when I know I could be so true
If I had someone like you
It hurts me to see the way he makes you cry
You love him too much, you’re too blind to see
He’s only playing a game
But he’s never loved you
He never will
And darling, don’t you know he will never change
Oh, I know he never will set you free
Because he’s just that kind of guy
But if you ever tell him you’re through
I’ll be waiting for you
Waiting to hold you so tight
Waiting to kiss you goodnight
Yes, darling, if I had someone like you