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It has become increasingly common for a girl to get offended by a friendoned boy who admitted to his want for something more in the relationship. Ladies, it isn’t about sex. Not all guys who talk with you do it to get in your pants (and if you believe that all guys only want sex, your an ignorant sexist). If you think all our friend wants is to get in your pants, tell me this: why would he keep his real feelings a secret from you, just for fear of losing the friendship, and rejection, if all he wanted was your vagina?
Answer: He wouldn’t. If a guy would rather be your friend than nothing, he obviously is after more than sex. So girls, if this ever happens to you, don’t freak out. This guy is your friend, he has been there for you. He isn’t one of those assholes you usually see. So half of you reading this, keep in mind that the most successful relationships are couples who claim to be “best friends,” and were friends before they dated. To the other half of you, get the hell off of tumbr and go apologize to your future husband.
I have to be honest with you guys, being a gentleman does not always get you females to spread their legs. I’m sorry that it isn’t true. I used to be one of those girls who would run back to her cheating, lying, asshole BOYfriend every sunday he asked for me back. [Yes, I did have an ex that did break up with me over the weekends to fuck other girls. & yes, I know that isn’t cheating but he also did cheat in addition to that.] I mean, being a creeton certainly got him an abundance of girls. So no, you will not always get girls that spread their legs by being a gentelmen. But, you will always have women who respect themselves. & if you play your cards right, you might sleep with them. [that shouldn’t be your first priority, lol but I know its up there.] & it will be more than a sloppy drunk girl who tastes like sweat, vodka and puke; who has a 67% chance of pissing herself while she clumbsily sits on your lap. It will be with someone who first of all: is less likely of having an STD, second: can count how many people she’s slept with, third: will be sober and still want you. not your dick, YOU. So no, gentlemen do not get pussy, they get ladies.
So true. Bad Boys finish first. Nice Guys finish last; but that just means their girl actually gets off.